Semi-Finalists Announced for Venus Awards Dorset 2018

On the 24th July Mercedes-Benz of Poole, Venus Awards Dorset Associate Sponsor, hosted over 120 nominees, guests and sponsors at their Poole Showroom, for the announcement of the names of those progressing to the Semi-Finalist stage of the 2018 Venus Awards Dorset.

The sixty successful Semi-Finalists will now go through to the next stage of the judging process, and the finalists will be announced on 26th September 2018.  

Venus Awards Dorset is now in its 9th year, and the response remains consistently strong with over 515 nominations and 350 applications.

The Dorset participants are competing in 14 categories including Inspirational Woman of the Year, Small Business of the Year, Employer of the Year and Business Mother of the Year.

This year’s Charity Sponsor is Boo.  The aim of “Boo” is to help children of Africa disadvantaged through economic poverty by providing help in a variety of ways, including food, shelter, health, education, life-skills and emotional support.

The Venus Awards – dubbed by Channel 4 as “The Working Women’s Oscars” – celebrate the vital contribution that women in business make to the local, regional and national economy, and are unique in that anyone can nominate a friend, client or family member.  To provide extra help for our nominees and other working women, we have recently launched The Venus Business School. This exciting new initiative offers invaluable support for female entrepreneurs and working women in the areas of confidence, communication, leadership and stress/time management.

The Venus Awards Dorset 2018, in association with Mercedes-Benz of Poole, will culminate in a glamorous Ceremony and Gala Dinner on the 23rd November 2018.

 The Venus Awards Dorset 2018 Semi-Finalists are:

 Influential Woman of The Year (Sponsored by Mercedes-Benz of Poole)

Emily

Coomber

Bournemouth Property Association

Nicole

Dawson

Do You Hear the People Sing?

Beverley

Hepting

Discover Your Voice

Erin

Thomas Wong

Making Mumpreneurs Ltd

Angela

Piromalli

Rock Recruitment

Employer of the Year Award

Kirstin

Duffield

Morning Data

Nicola

Honer

Go South Coast Ltd

Emma

Lynch

BBD Boom Ltd

Rosie

Wallace

Marsham Court Hotel Ltd

Sandra

Palmer-Snellin

Farmer Palmers

 Small Business of the Year (Sponsored by Dutton Gregory LLP)

Emma

Lynch

BBD Boom Ltd

Danielle

Manton-Kelly

The Wedding Crècherz

Jo

Spragg

Kite Clothing

Clare

Groombridge

South Coast Social Ltd

Helen

Rivero

The Young People Index

 Breakthrough Employee of The Year

Cara

Ashford

Conker Spirit

Sian

Gill

Autism Wessex

Hayley

Johnston

Ceuta Healthcare Ltd

Amber

Leegwater

Emm-Power Ltd.

Annette

Murphy

Just Move In

 Inspirational Woman of the Year (Sponsored by Bournemouth University)

Mandy

Gulliver

Acts Fast

Danielle

Manton-Kelly

The Wedding Crècherz

Gemma

Alcock

SkyBound Rescuer

Dimpee

Kalita-Smith

Condor Ferries

Rachael

Gibson

Autism Wessex

 Entrepreneur of The Year (Sponsored by D52ltd – Business Toolkit)

Kirstin

Duffield

Morning Data

Sarah

Carlile

Coconut Creatives

Dee

Clayton

Simply Amazing Training Ltd

Leila

Gregory

Belle Modelle Ltd

Heather

Williams

Sourcing Playground

Sustainability Award (Sponsored by Tops Day Nurseries)

Julie

Woodward

BeeWrap UK

Jo

Spragg

Kite Clothing

Kelly

Levell

We Do Ethical

Helen

Winter

Coral Interiors

Lynda

Daniels

The Southern Sustainability Partnership

Lifetime Achievement Award (Sponsored by Luxurycare)

Sarah

Carlile

Coconut Creatives

Nicola

Honer

Go South Coast Ltd

Annie

Raven – Vause

Heartledwellbeing Ltd

Gail

Reynolds

Gail Reynolds gailsreps (Avon)

Ildiko

Scurr

Life Retuning

Customer Service Award (Sponsored by Lovett International)

Abi

Dunseith

 

Natalie

Brian

Jigsaw Specialist Recruitment

Jo

Spragg

Kite Clothing

Hannah

Beard

Pure Wellness

Joanne

Farrell

Holidaze

Dawn

Scott

Dawn Scott – The Colour Guru

Philippa

Sole

Philippa Sole

Natalie

Cranston

Beautifully Gorgeous Salon

Colina

Currell

Synergy Hairdressing

Sophie

Gallagher

Simply Gorgeous

 Business Mother Award (Sponsored by (BCS) Bournemouth Collegiate School)

Natalie

Brian

Jigsaw Specialist Recruitment

Emma

Lynch

BBD Boom Ltd

Danielle

Manton-Kelly

The Wedding Crècherz

Kerry

Brown

Go Fish Education

Kate

Cadbury

Kate Cadbury Pilates

Bryony

Curtis-Turner

BCT Videos

Stacey

Knowles

Live Life Organised

Lucy

Mooney

Studio 11

Erin

Thomas Wong

Making Mumpreneurs Ltd

Joanna

Bray

Docrafts

CEO & Founder is a Venus Awards Nominee

Many Gulliver CEO & Co-Founder is delighted to have received 2 nominations for the Dorset Venus Award.

Venus Awards was founded nearly 10 years ago by Tara Howard to recognise and reward women in business in the local Dorset community. Coined “The Working Women’s Oscars” the Venus Awards have since expanded across the country and have recognised hundreds of hard working women and female friendly businesses with the most recent region, London, heralding the 35 awards ceremony

https://www.venusawards.co.uk/dorset/

https://facebook.com/VenusAwards

https://twitter.com/@womenawards

 

Co-op’s charity of the year

“Acts fast is delighted to have been chosen as one of the Co-op’s charity of the year, for their Local Community Fund”

Venus Awards

Many Gulliver CEO & Co-Founder is delighted to have received 2 nominations for the Dorset Venus Awards

Venus Awards was founded nearly 10 years ago by Tara Howard to recognise and reward women in business in the local Dorset community.  Coined “The Working Women’s Oscars” the Venus Awards have since expanded accross the country and have recognised hundreds of hard working women and female friendly businesses with the most recent region, London, heralding the 35 awards ceremony.

To find out more visit www.venusawards.co.uk

A Parents experience of AF support

Ground Zero for me was 11th November 2015, it was the day my world as I knew it, had fell apart.  A bomb had gone off in what I thought was a fairly good life and all that was left was devastation, hurt and loneliness.  I had a loving husband, supportive family and friends but all I felt was pain.  As a mother, I found it hard to accept that I was unable to protect my baby girl from the suffering she had endured.  My daughter was only 14 and I wasn’t there for her when she really needed me.

 My daughter didn’t blame anyone.  All she wanted was not to be reminded of her unfortunate experience, so the only request she had for me was to act ‘normal’.  Can I just say ‘normal’ was the hardest thing she could have asked from me at that point but I tried.  During the day I would be a mother, a wife, work full time and do school pick-ups and drops off as normal, but at night all I wanted to do was question why, what I could have done to avoid it and cry.

 In pure desperation for answers, I searched for some kind of support, help, and understanding, anything that would help me to make sense of what had gone on.  I needed to understand what I was feeling and how I could support my daughter when I didn’t know how to support myself.

 This is when I found Acts Fast, it was only a couple of weeks after ground zero but by then it had felt like I had been suffering for an eternity.  Shrapnel of my life before ground zero lay scattered around.

 I left my contact details and my call was returned within a day or so.  Mandy from Acts Fast was a calm, welcoming voice of reason in my life, which had by that point become an uphill struggle of chaos and only just functioning.  I was offered a time slot to visit Mandy at a local Children’s Centre have a cup of tea and a chat.

 From that very visit, I felt validated, understood and supported. Acts Fast helped me find exactly what I needed.  Over several months, I met some amazing, strong women going through the same struggles I was, helping each other understand the whats and the whys.  Having people who truly, deeply know how you feel and why, brings you some kind of peace.  With the support, the love and kindness Acts Fast have provided me, I have been able to support my daughter in a way that she requires and understand what she has been and will be going through.  

 Unfortunately for us, my daughter’s case didn’t have the outcome, we had hoped for due to the lack of evidence. We felt let down and deflated by the system.  With the help of Acts Fast, I was able to question the Dorset Police & Crime Commisioner in the way my daughter’s case had been handled.  My daughter was given the opportunity to voice her experience to the Chief of Dorset Police.  Although the outcome couldn’t be changed, Acts Fast helped us every step of the way to get my daughter the validation she needed, in the way of an apology and a promise to much needed local change. It is a small step that could not have been faced without the support of Mandy at Acts Fast.

 With Acts Fast by my side I have felt strong, I have been able to forgive myself for not being absolutely everywhere at all times and for not being able to prevent what had happened.

 Slowly but surely I have been able to find pieces of shrapnel and put them back together, not necessarily in the same order as before but feeling more whole as time goes by.

 I feel I have gained true friends in the people I have met at Acts Fast and can’t imagine, where I would be now without them.

Funding Boost – DPCC Press Release

“We are extremely pleased and thankful to be supported and commissioned by the Office of the Dorset Police and Crime Commissioner (OPCC). The OPCC, and Martyn Underhill in particular, have seen the vital and valuable work Acts Fast has provided families for Dorset over the last 4 years. They recognise the huge impact child sexual abuse has on the parent and wider family.

When your child discloses they have been sexually abused we liken it to a ‘bomb going off’ and the shrapnel hitting everyone around. At Acts Fast, we provide that much needed ongoing support for the parents, carers and family members.

With the commissioning of our services we are able to continue to help families affected by child sexual abuse.” Mandy Gulliver CEO & Co-Founder.

 Dr Andrew Mayers, Principal Academic at Bournemouth University and Chair of Trustees at Acts Fast said “We are very grateful for this funding. It will help secure the immediate future of Acts Fast and enable our CEO to focus on ensuring our long-term sustainability. We work hard to provide the support that families need, but we cannot do that without funding.

Children who are sexually abused are far more likely to be at risk for a lifetime of mental health problems. Acts Fast help reduce that impact by working with the child and family as they navigate life after abuse. We will continue to seek funding to ensure that we are able provide that support.”

The figures you asked for over the last couple of years are: 65 referrals, 38 hours of email support, 26 hours of text support, 109 hours of phone calls. Drop-in and one to one counselling started in Poole and Dorchester from April last year and Bournemouth from January 2018: 270 hours of Drop-ins and 104 hours of counselling.

“I desperately needed to speak to someone who would understand what I was going through and to hear of Acts Fast was like a lifeline for me.  Mandy was able to understand the rollercoaster of emotions I was on and helped me understand that I was not alone and she would be there to help me through in any way she could.  I knew nothing of how to go about getting help for my daughters but with Mandy’s help was able to find a wonderful psychotherapist to help with all of my daughters. Sometime later, my daughters wanted to share their story and with Mandy’s help, they were able to help raise awareness with their story in the Bournemouth Echo.  My eldest daughter has also been to speak to governors on the Local Safeguarding Children’s Board to discuss what she feels should be done to help other children like her.   From this meeting she has been asked to help design a helpline poster so that all children are able to recognise sexual abuse and relate it to what they are going through.  It is also hoped that she will be able to help in making a video that could be used in schools and through Acts Fast. 

None of this would have been possible without the help of Mandy so I feel strongly about Acts Fast and the support they provide, and funding it needs, to help carry out the much needed work that they do”

Dorset PCC Police Blog

Comment from Dr Andy Mayers

Reporting by Daily Echo

CSA – NSPCC Awareness Raising Campaign

Mandy of Actsfast has been instrumental in helping the LSCB launch a NSPCC Awareness Raising Campaign and has also supported the family of the teenager that spoke out. To read the full reports in local newspapers follow the links below:

CSA / NSPCC PANTS Campaign Launch Event – 1st May 2018

Bournemouth Echo – New Campaign To Warn Children About Sexual Abuse

LSCB Website – NSPCC Awareness Raising

This ‘Wall of Silence’ is highlighting the impact of child abuse on survivors – and they want you to see it

Luke Hastings, Bournemouth Echo

BOURNEMOUTH University hosted an “extraordinary” conference to highlight the impact of child abuse this week.

In partnership with child abuse charity Acts Fast, the university held the conference alongside an exhibition called the ‘Wall of Silence’. The wall showed images and stories to show the impact child abuse has on its victims.

Among the conference speakers were Dorset Police and Crime Commissioner, Martyn Underhill and the Lord Lieutenant of Dorset, Angus Campbell.

Survivors, parents and support groups also spoke about their experiences of child abuse and there were discussions about how to try and prevent it.

Chair of trustees for Acts Fast, Dr Andrew Mayers, said: “It was extraordinary to hear the stories. This is absolutely essential. It’s demolishing this wall of silence, where you can’t talk about these things. The exhibition and conference are making it ok to talk about child abuse and helping with the impact of it, whilst raising awareness around it.”

CEO of the Southmead project, who created the wall, Dr Mike Peirce, said: “The exhibition not only highlights child abuse, its impact and the suffering this causes, but also the sheer determination and doggedness of those affected in trying to overcome the aftermath of that abuse: self-harming, substance misuse and sadly, attempts – sometimes successful, to take one’s life.

“Being believed means so much to so many; by their actions in staging this exhibition, the team is giving voice to victims and survivors and are a credit to themselves, Acts Fast, Bournemouth University and the concept of an inclusive, caring society.”

One speaker, Sue Crocombe, was abused as a child and her story appears on the wall.

She said: “I understand that people will feel uncomfortable about the idea of viewing an exhibition on the impact of child abuse. But, as survivors, we want others see it.

“We want them to hear our voices speaking out, breaking the silence of this taboo subject. This exhibition is not just about our pain, losses and confusion. It’s also about our strength, resilience and pride in having survived such a terrible crime.”

The conference and exhibition took place over two days last Monday and Tuesday, with approximately 70 people attending the conference.